Man may work from sun to sun , but woman's work is never done.
Women are born to work and get unrecognized . Their domestic work , contribution towards family always remains invisible. As per what our grandpa and grandma says ....If work is blessing , do we feel same about housework ? If your answer is YES, is it a blessing for woman only ?
Its just 5 AM and your alarm is beeping . You too need 5 more minutes sleep but you are not allowed . You too don't want to come out of your sweet dreams but you are not allowed . You are a woman.
You are in kitchen preparing a meal for your family . Your hands are working as faster as they can. You just don't want to say BYE to your husband with empty stomach and without lunch box. You are about to take a sip of tea and you hear something. Yes...... its your baby , calling you from bed. Baby is screaming for your attention. Your little angel don't want anyone other than Mom :) You are a bucket of love for him. Now you have to forget your sip of tea. .....and it happens daily.
Your sink is overflowing with dirty utensils. Bucket of clothes is waiting for you in bathroom. You house is dirty with socks thrown here and there . By the way, you know who!!!!
It is unnoticed unless it is left undone.
The clock is running faster than wheels of your baby's school bus. In a day you have to go to market, ,handle your husband's bank accounts,attends your in-law's medical appointments, have to take care of a man who sometimes behave like a stranger !! and many things. Now you are rushing back home to check on children , clean your house one more time, and trying to fix a cup of tea at least this time.
Your man will probably sit with legs up on sofa that you just cleaned , with mobile in his one hand and newspaper in other, asking you to prepare something special to eat with tea.
Society has placed value to work done outside home that is measured by salary. That work get paid and celebrated . This same society thinks a good woman should work without asking anything in return, should handle her pressures without raising her voice, without loosing her evergreen nature.
I believe if you ask man to pay or a society to pay just negligible amount, they wont do it. Rather it will be a source of conflicts.
Women do far too much than get appreciated . Call her 24 hours working machines, she will just smile. Try to find out meaning behind her smile.
Man , you may not realize it but these everyday activities are causing back pain.If she is saying "My back is hurting!", is does not mean she is complaining. If she is asking you to do something , it dos not mean she is avoiding her responsibilities. You are the only one to whom she can ask for help and she want to tell everything. Try to understand her.
She loves you. She loves your family too. She is taking care of your baby without any rest . She is not demanding anything from you other that your love and care. One tight hug, a word of appreciation, a touch of love is enough for her. Because she know
Without her managing at home, its impossible for you to go out and earn. And without you , it will be hard for her to manage at home.
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If you find her constantly trying to prove her value to you, she have already lost. Try to value your superwoman .
